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I recently pulled a card from my Practical Magic deck that immediately spoke to me: Gift of Solitude - Warm My Heart. The message was simple, yet profound: Time alone is precious and essential. In the busyness of life, it’s often the first thing we sacrifice and the last thing we allow ourselves. Yet it’s one of the greatest gifts we can give our hearts, minds, and souls.

Solitude isn’t about loneliness—it’s about connection. Connection to yourself. Physically, it allows your brain to unwind, rest, and recharge. Emotionally, it gives you the space to process feelings, clarify your perspective, and truly hear the whispers of your heart. It’s in these quiet moments that creativity flourishes, solutions arise seemingly out of nowhere, and confidence deepens.

Being constantly surrounded by people, noise, and endless distractions can drown out your inner wisdom. Time alone helps you explore who you really are, what you hope for, and what you truly want. Without it, it’s easy to unconsciously echo the opinions of others or follow paths that don’t align with your authentic self. Solitude invites reflection, self-discovery, and spiritual growth. It encourages independent thinking and fosters resilience, empathy, and emotional balance.

In our modern world, solitude often means turning off the noise—literally. Phones, notifications, and social media can make it hard to truly disconnect. I love putting my phone aside in the evenings, not answering messages constantly, and allowing myself the simple pleasure of watching a show or just sitting with my own thoughts. Those moments of quiet are sacred. They let your mind wander, your creativity bloom, and your heart breathe.

The gift of solitude is a practice, not a one-off indulgence. It’s about carving out space to rest, reflect, and connect with yourself. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin, exploring your interests, and pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone. And in giving yourself this gift, you don’t just heal and grow—you also enrich your relationships, deepen your empathy, and learn to show up more fully for the world.

So today, I invite you to honor the gift of solitude. Put your phone down, step away from the noise, and simply be with yourself. Listen. Create. Walk. Think. Watch. Breathe. There’s power, peace, and transformation waiting quietly in those moments—just for you.

The Aries Super Full Moon rises in the southern sky this Tuesday afternoon 7 October 2025, 4:48 p.m. (NZDT), glowing with fierce brilliance and awakening our inner fire. This lunation is a cosmic ignition point, urging us to act with courage, confidence, and authenticity.

The Spirit of Aries

Aries, the first sign of the zodiac, is the sacred initiator — the one who dares to begin. She teaches us to trust our instincts, follow our excitement, and act upon what stirs the soul. Under her light, we remember that beginnings are holy, and that courage is the key that unlocks creation.

Ruled by Mars, Aries energy is pure life force — the pulse that drives creation, passion, and protection. It is the fire that defends the innocent, creates art from chaos, and takes a stand for truth. Though often mistaken for aggression, Aries’ true heart is sensitive and noble. She fights not for power, but for purpose.

As this Full Moon peaks, we are invited to honour the flame within — the spark that calls us forward into action, healing, and authenticity. Let it remind you of your own divine fire: bold, creative, and eternally alive.

Ritual Theme: Rekindling Your Flame

You will need:
A red, orange, or gold candle (your rekindling flame)
Matches or lighter
A journal and pen
Your tarot or oracle deck
A small piece of paper for your symbol or word
A safe fire-proof dish or cauldron
Optional: Fire element essential oils (cinnamon, clove, frankincense, or ginger), and an altar space adorned with red, gold, and natural fire symbols (sunstones, feathers, or imagery of flame and light).

Ritual Steps

1. Ground & Centre

Begin by taking a few deep breaths. Feel your body rooted into the earth beneath you. Breathe in strength, exhale any tension. Imagine yourself grounded and held by the Earth’s steady energy. If you wish you can do the meditation by The Psychic Soul Meditations for the Aries Full Moon, find it by clicking here.

2. Awaken the Flame Within

Close your eyes and bring awareness to your solar plexus — the seat of your willpower and confidence. Visualise a small, golden flame flickering there. With every breath, feel it grow brighter and warmer until its light fills your entire body. Recognise this as your life spark — your sacred essence, connected to the divine fire that fuels stars, suns, and souls alike. 

When ready, light your candle and say this Invocation of the Flame.

“The fire that lights the sun and stars is the same fire that lights my life.
I call upon this divine energy to rekindle my inner flame —
May its light inspire and sustain me.
May it illuminate my path and clarify my passion.
I hereby rekindle my flame.”

Sit with the flame for a few moments, breathing in its energy.

3. The Writing Practice

Take your journal and reflect on the following:
Three things that fire you up — what makes you feel alive?
Three things you would fight for — what do you fiercely protect or believe in?
One thing you would do if you knew you would succeed.

Allow yourself to write freely, with no self-judgment. Aries energy loves honesty, boldness, and action.

4. The Tarot Practice — “Rekindle Your Flame” Card Spread

When ready, shuffle your deck and ask: “What message does the Aries Full Moon hold for me?”

Then lay out the cards as follows:
The Spark – What is reigniting within me now?
The Block – What stands in the way of my passion or courage?
The Fire Within – What inner strength or quality is ready to rise?
The Action – What step can I take to embody my renewed energy?
The Flame’s Message – Guidance from Spirit or your higher self for the path ahead.

Observe any symbols, colours, or emotions that arise. Write down what stands out.

5. Set Your Intention

From your reading or writing practice, choose one symbol, word, or phrase that captures your Aries full moon message. Draw or write it on your small piece of paper — don’t overthink or censor it. Hold it over your flame and say: “I release this into the sacred fire. May its energy transform and return to me renewed.” Burn the paper safely, letting the ashes fall into your fire-proof dish. When cooled, take them outside and scatter them to the wind — releasing your intention into the world.

6. Ongoing Practice

Place your rekindling candle on your altar. For the next seven days, light it daily and repeat the invocation: “The fire that lights the sun and stars is the same fire that lights my life…” As you do, meditate on your word or symbol, journal your insights, and notice how energy begins to move — new ideas, renewed confidence, or surprising clarity may arise.

Closing Blessing

“May my flame burn bright with courage and creativity.
May passion guide my steps and truth anchor my heart.
I honour the sacred fire within me —
Eternal, radiant, and free.”

After Care — Tending the Flame

After working with Aries fire, it’s important to ground and nurture yourself. Fire energy can stir deep emotion, insight, and motivation, and while this can feel exhilarating, it’s equally vital to rest and integrate what’s been awakened. 

Spend some quiet time outdoors. Stand barefoot on the earth, feel the wind on your face, or place your hands on a tree trunk. Let nature help you anchor the energy you’ve raised. Drink plenty of water and eat grounding foods — root vegetables, grains, or anything warm and comforting. Fire transforms, but water and earth sustain.

Remember, transformation doesn’t need to be constant action. Allow yourself a day or two to simply be — to absorb what has shifted, and trust that your new direction will unfold naturally.

Awakening, Balance, and New Growth

Best Time to Ritual: Night of Sunday, 21 September 2025
Special Alignment: Spring Equinox and Virgo New Moon Solar Eclipse (Monday, 22 September, 6–8am NZ)

This weekend, the Spring Equinox and Virgo New Moon Solar Eclipse converge — a rare threshold where balance, shadow, and light meet. The Earth turns toward growth, blossoms awaken, and for a fleeting moment, the Sun is veiled by the Moon. It is both stillness and beginning, a cosmic pause where we may realign with truth and plant intentions in fertile soil.

The Spring Equinox, also called Ostara, marks the balance between light and dark — day and night are equal before the scales tip toward the growing light. Seeds stir, blossoms unfurl, and the earth quickens with life. Ostara invites us to honour both shadow and light within ourselves, to plant new intentions, and to celebrate the fertile energy of beginnings.

“Step into balance. Plant your dreams. Grow in harmony with the light.”

Expect fresh energy, renewal of spirit, and a call to simplicity, joy, and creation. This is a time to bless what is awakening and tend the seeds of your becoming.

You Will Need
A quiet space filled with spring light or fresh air
A candle (green, yellow, or white)
Seasonal foods of contrast (dark/earthy and light/fresh — e.g. nuts and berries, bread and fruit, chocolate and honey, cooked root vegetable and raw greens)
Pen and paper
Your tarot or oracle deck
Optional herbs: rosemary, chamomile, vervain
Optional crystals: Rose Quartz, Moss Agate, Citrine, Green Aventurine
Optional extras: flowers, eggshells, feathers, or seasonal decorations for your altar

Create Your Sacred Space
Cleanse your space with smoke, sound, or intention. Place your tools around you: candle, water, foods, seed or egg, soil, and tarot deck. Add crystals or flowers if you wish. Light the candle and take slow, deep breaths. Imagine your body rooted in the soil while reaching toward the sun.

Say aloud or whisper:
"I call upon the Spring Equinox, Ostara, balance of day and night.
May this be a space of harmony, awakening, and renewal.
May all that is planted be nourished in light.
May my spirit grow in joy and balance."

Meditation 
Sit comfortably with your feet on the earth. Close your eyes and take three steady breaths. Visualise roots extending deep into the soil, grounding you in the turning of the seasons. Above, the Sun shines at the centre of a clear spring sky. Feel its warmth enliven every part of you.

Now, watch as the Moon glides across the Sun. Light softens, shadows deepen, and a hush falls. Time seems to pause. You stand at the centre of the eclipse, balanced between dark and light, ending and beginning.

Feel the shadow gently drawing away old patterns, doubts, or clutter. Watch them dissolve into darkness, released with grace. In your chest, a small flame glows — the light of clarity and renewal. With each breath, it grows brighter, steady and golden, filling you with strength, purpose, and peace.

This is your seed of intention, waiting to be planted in the new season. As the shadow passes and the Sun’s brilliance returns, imagine this seed sinking into the fertile earth within you. Breathe life into it, trusting it will grow in balance.

Place your hands on your heart or belly. When ready, gently open your eyes.

Equinox Meal — Tasting Balance

First Taste — The Shadow
Take one dark, bitter, or cooked food.
Eat it slowly. Feel it in your body.
Whisper: “I honour the shadow within me — the fears, the doubts, the hidden truths. They are mine.”

Second Taste — The Light
Take something light, sweet, or raw.
Taste its brightness, freshness.
Whisper: “I honour the light within me — the joys, the dreams, the hopes. They are mine.”

Third Taste — The Union
Combine the opposites in a single bite.
Chew with awareness of both existing together.
Whisper: “I integrate the shadow and the light. I am whole.”

Set your food down. Close your eyes. Imagine yourself as the sky — the shadow moving across, the light returning. Sit in stillness for a few minutes, breathing into your belly.

Ostara Tarot Spread — Balance & Growth
1. The Seed: What intention is ready to be planted?
2. The Soil: What foundation will nourish its growth?
3. The Weed: What must be cleared or simplified?
4. The Sun: What gift or energy will help me grow?
5. The Blossom: What may come into being if I tend with care?
6. The Balance: How do I honour both dark and light in my path forward?

Or Journaling Reflection (Optional):
What seeds or intentions am I planting this season?
What balance between shadow and light do I feel in myself now?
What needs to be cleared to make space for growth?
How do I wish to nurture joy, harmony, and renewal in daily life?
What does blossoming feel like in body, mind, and spirit?

Final Blessing
"I honour the balance of light and dark within me.
I bless the seed of my becoming.
I welcome renewal, harmony, and growth.
As the earth blossoms, so do I.
So it is."

Aftercare
Drink water or herbal tea (mint, chamomile, or nettle are lovely).
Step outside, breathe fresh air, and greet the sun or stars.
Tend to your planted seed daily with care and attention.
Keep your candle, flower, or seed on your altar as a reminder of your renewal.
Journal one word to carry forward through this season.

Emotions are like cars on a busy highway. Some are tiny and quiet, barely noticeable. Others are massive trucks barreling past, honking and swerving. You can’t stop the traffic — but you can choose how to drive.

When grief, anger, or fear hits, it can feel like suddenly finding yourself in a traffic jam. The instinct is to slam on the brakes, swerve, or panic. Instead, take a deep breath. Keep your hands steady on the wheel. Notice the road ahead. Feel the traffic without letting it take over.

In my early 20s, driving through Auckland traffic, I quickly realised that if I didn’t breathe and remind myself I was exactly where I needed to be — and that I’d arrive in the right time — I’d be completely overwhelmed. That experience taught me more about staying calm under pressure than anything else. Emotions work the same way: they move, shift, and pass. Stay present, and you’ll find your way through.

Sometimes the traffic is frustrating but manageable — someone cuts in, or a long line slows your progress. Emotions can be like that: a sharp comment sparks irritation, or a memory stirs sadness. You notice it, you feel it, and then you keep moving, without letting it steer your reactions.

Other times, it’s a full-on jam: an unexpected email rattles you, an argument erupts, or grief arrives in a wave. That’s when you may need to slow down, pull over, or pause. The highway is still there, the traffic will keep flowing — you’re simply giving yourself space to breathe before merging back in.

Whether the road is clear or congested, the principle is the same: notice the cars without becoming them. Feel anger, grief, or fear — but don’t merge fully into them. Awareness is your seatbelt. Presence is your steering wheel. This is how you stay steady no matter what comes.

No judgment — everyone encounters jams and reckless drivers. You can feel deeply, honour your emotions, and still steer your life. Storms pass. The road stretches ahead. Stay centred. Stay present. The way forward is always open.

Questions to Ask Yourself While Driving Through Emotions:

What am I actually feeling right now, without the story attached?
Which part of this emotion is mine, and which is just noise around me?
Where in my body do I feel it, and how can I move or breathe through it?
If I stayed present, what would this emotion teach me?
What action can I take to honour the feeling without losing my centre?

Affirmation to Ground Yourself: "I am the driver of my life. I feel fully, stay steady, and keep my course."

From the moment we’re born, society begins wrapping us in layers. Family expectations, school rules, cultural norms, media messages—they pile up like coats we didn’t choose, telling us who we’re meant to be. And while some of those layers protect and guide us, many begin to feel heavy, scratchy, and not quite ours. Authenticity isn’t about tossing everything aside; it’s about gently peeling back what doesn’t fit anymore, until we feel free in our own skin again.

The simplest way back to our true nature is through the doorway of play, creativity, and joy. Think of how children move through the world—dancing without an audience, laughing without self-consciousness, painting without caring if it’s “good.” That’s authenticity in its purest form. When we create, sing, or allow ourselves to be a little silly, we bypass fear and responsibility for a moment and tap into something raw and real. It’s not about “becoming” who we are, it’s about remembering.

Authenticity doesn’t have to be a big, heavy concept. It’s as light as choosing to laugh even when life is serious, as freeing as saying what you really feel, as simple as doing something just because it sparks joy. Each time we follow that pull, we shed a layer of conditioning and step closer to who we’ve been all along. Maybe the real work isn’t in striving, but in returning—to the lightness, creativity, and love that has always been our nature.

I see you. I see the spark that’s always been there under all those layers. And I’m here to tell you—it’s okay to let it shine. You don’t need to wait for the “right time” or have it all figured out. You have permission—right now—to peel back what doesn’t feel like you anymore and step into the skin that does.

Do it with laughter. Do it with music. Do it with a little bit of mischief if that’s your style. This isn’t about fixing yourself; it’s about freeing yourself. Life doesn’t have to be heavy to be meaningful. In fact, sometimes the lightest moments are the most real.

So play, experiment, twirl, sing, or paint outside the lines. Let it be fun. Let it be yours. And most of all, let yourself enjoy the journey back to your beautiful, authentic self.

Reflections for You

What “layers” of expectation or conditioning no longer feel true for me?

When was the last time I felt childlike joy, play, or freedom?

What small, creative act could I do today just for fun—not for productivity or approval?

How can I remind myself to choose lightness when life feels heavy?

Affirmation for the Day: "I give myself permission to be playful, light, and free. My joy is my compass, always guiding me back to what is real. I am safe to peel back the layers and shine as I am, remembering the fullness of my true, authentic self."

I couldn't stop thinking about the Wild Kuan Yin Oracle today. I pulled a card from the deck and it all made sense to why I needed to get it out. Happy Pisces Full Moon Eclipse.

Today’s Pisces full moon eclipse reminds us that sensitivity is not a burden but a gateway — a gift that allows us to feel the unseen currents moving through our lives.

If something is happening that you cannot yet see, your sensitivity will know it first. You might sense it in whispers, tingles, or quiet impulses before there’s any proof in the outer world. Others around you may not feel it at all, but that doesn’t make it less real. It is simply the realm you’re tuned to — subtle, energetic, alive. Let go of comparing how you experience life with anyone else. The more you relax into what you perceive, without judgment, the more your inner knowing will blossom. Like any skill, it deepens with practice, persistence, and prayer.

And if you’ve been feeling a pull — a choice, a truth you need to speak, a step that makes no sense to the rational mind — trust it. This moon’s medicine is to remind you that intuition is intelligence, and your sensitivity is grace. Call on the guidance that loves you unconditionally, and follow the impulse within. It will lead you where you need to go, not with force but with flow. Step into this eclipse with openness, surrender, and the faith that you are being moved by the moon into your divine path.

Affirmation: "I trust my sensitivity and intuition. I surrender to the flow of life, allowing my feelings to guide me with grace, intelligence, and love."